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New Year – Even Better Me… Do You Have Your Resolutions Ready?

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A brand-new decade, an even better me?  New Years is usually a time for reflection and optimism for the next year, or even for the next decade – it’s going to be better this time around! Are you someone who takes the opportunity of this proverbial “blank slate” to set one, two, ten… resolutions?  According to Statista, the most common resolution for 2019 was to diet or to eat healthier – not too surprising, right?! A close second place resolution was to exercise more. These were tied for first in 2018 with saving money.  The focus for a healthier year remains on people’s minds. So why does the same thing happen year after year?  January hits and gym are packed!  The diet industry is advertising at a fever pitch.  You see more green juice, detox teas and celebrity-endorsed cleanses.  And what about the exercise equipment/device/gadget that you just MUST buy – immediately?!  By March all of this had dissipated, as well as your motivation.  What gives? Three words for you: unrealistic goal setting.

Let's Get S.M.A.R.T.

When surveyed at the end of 2018, only 4% of individuals said they kept all their resolutions. The other 96% of us can attribute our failed achievement to not having a S.M.A.R.T. goal from the beginning of the year. A S.M.A.R.T. goal is holistic and can “see into your future” to hedge for life challenges and obstacles. For example: “After 4 weeks from today, I want to weigh 6 pounds lighter”. Let’s break down this resolution using the acronym S.M.A.R.T.:

  • Specific: Both 4 weeks and 6 pounds are exact.
  • Measurable: The weight on day one compared to the last day is objective.
  • Attainable: It is recommended to lose between 1-2 pounds a week for sustained loss.
  • Relevant: Starting to lose weight will help me achieve my final health goal
  • Time-bound: Four weeks is a set deadline that can be marked on the calendar.

Micro-Changes

Rome wasn’t built in a day.  And whatever you are working on probably didn’t start yesterday – likely it is something you have been working on/dealing with for quite some time.  Setting small, realistic goals a few weeks at a time will set you up for long-lasting change, just like taking a major project one step at a time. Once you have finalized your S.M.A.R.T. goal it’s time to prepare for the inevitable fall off the horse. This could come in the form of eating a diet of strictly donuts and champagne for a week or skipping your workouts for another week. Do NOT beat yourself up over this, we all go through loss of motivation!  And those donuts probably tasted really good.  Let it go, it is in the past and you are living in the present.  Get right back to your goal and focus on micro-changes. Whether it is going for a 10-minute walk during lunch, or simply always eating 1 green vegetable at dinner, or adding 3 extra glasses of water per day – start super small and slowly build back up.  The faster you get back to what you are working on, the better you will feel, and easier it will be to stay on track.

Who’s Got Your Back?

Asking for support is an underestimated resource.  Our support system can help to motivate us and asking for help also builds stronger relationships. Having nights when you cook healthful meals with your family or friends or recruiting a gym buddy can greatly improve your chances of sticking to a goal. Accountability to someone else can change your mindset from wanting to do something to needing to do something. Tracking your development on social media can be a way to find support in others, even if they are not local and visualize progress along the way. In the case of the S.M.A.R.T. goal mentioned before, taking pictures each week could eventually be compiled into a year’s worth of change!

Live in the Now

What better time to change than now?  Because the truth is, all we have is right now. Motivation comes in waves; change can start in a moment. This means, we can make our resolutions, our S.M.A.R.T. goals, any day.  Change takes work but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible. Just think, you can be a part of the 4% who follow through on making a lifelong change. 

In the words of Confucius, “the man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.''

Let us know what your S.M.A.R.T. goal is in the comments below.  And for more health and wellness tips follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn.

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10 Steps to the Happiest, Healthiest, and Safest Holiday Season for 2015

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What a year it has been!  As we all gear up for the December Holiday Season we at B.Komplete wanted to share with you our favorite tips for staying healthy and safe during the holidays, and all year round.  If you choose to use all 10, or pick 1-2 that work for you, please let us know how the tip has helped you! 

Savor Your Favorites
  • Scan the menu in advance and figure out which foods will provide you the most satisfaction to get the biggest enjoyment for the calories. Decide how much you can consume without overdoing it. If you enjoy appetizers or desserts select a few of your favorites to enjoy. Avoid mindlessly munching on foods that you aren’t crazy about.  When its time to enjoy your favorite food, eat it slowly.  Focus on all sensory aspects of the food.  
Live in the Moment
  • The holidays don’t have to be perfect or just like last year. As families change and grow, traditions and rituals often change also. Choose a few to hold on to, and be open to creating new ones. Focus on being present in the moment and focusing on the positives of right now. 
Plan Fun Exercise
  • Research has proven that if you enjoy exercise and think of it more like a fun activity you are more likely to do it, and also less likely to reward yourself with a food treat afterwards. Check out a new class at your gym, plan outdoor winter activities, take up a winter sport, or get creative at home – dance
Prune Your To-Do List
  • It’s really easy to let the to-do list pile up. And one sure fire way to reduce stress is to:  prune your to-do list. Ask, “If I don’t do this, what will happen?” Aim to knock down the list of “to-do” to the rock-bottom necessity.
Make a Budget
  • The American Psychological Association cited lack of time and money as biggest common stress producers for individuals during the holidays. Create a budget that works for you before the holidays start, and stick to it.  Check out Christmas Organized Home for some great resources and ideas on holiday budgets.  
Take a Breather
  • Make some time for yourself. Spending just 15 minutes alone, without distractions, may refresh you enough to handle everything you need to do. Even Oprah does this! Find something that reduces stress by clearing your mind, slowing your breathing and restoring inner calm.  Some options may include:  Taking a walk at night and stargazing, listening to soothing music, getting a massage, or reading a book.
Lighten Up Recipes
  • GREATIST has the greatest, healthy ideas.
  • The American Diabetes Association provides useful tips on how to enjoy and keep it healthy.
  • The team at Joy Bauer has some helpful tips to keep your holidays healthy: 
Happily Hydrate
  • Water may very well help keep your metabolism moving. And it is no secret that if you are dehydrated you are going to feel lousy.  Get extra water through broth based soups, decaffeinated tea, fruits and vegetables.  And enhance your water with citrus, cucumber, or berries.  
Rest Well
  • A good night’s rest can help your cognitive function, concentration skills, mood, and boost your immune function. Trouble sleeping?  The National Sleep Foundation provides helpful tips to give you a restful nights’ slumber. 
Laugh Often
  • Studies show that humor and happiness are associated with the ability to enhance our immune function, decrease our risk of stroke and cardiovascular disease. Schedule time for activities that make you laugh such as watching a funny movie or television show or spending more time with that one friend who makes you laugh.  There are many really funny videos on You Tube that only take a minute to watch, and can make you laugh to hard you have a positive outlook for the next hour.